Do you happen to have someone in your life (like an ex-husband for instance) who makes you feel so irritated and angry? What am I talking about? Angry isn't even the word.I don't regret my 2 boys but I do wish that I didn't have any ties to my ex-husband at all. Everytime I hear his voice it puts me in a depressed-like mood. Everytime I see him I just want to hurry up and exchange the boys with him so I don't have to see him any longer. When I get an email from him my body gets all revved up (like I wish I had a jack hammer and he was standing in front of my face saying what he dared to say online). I'm going through a really BIG issue with him and have been over the past few years and it has put some cramps in my relationship with my (now) husband (who's been amazing through it all).
I seriously just don't know how to deal with someone like him anymore. He's like an over-grown kid who never see's the bigger picture, always thinking of himself. When will he start thinking about what's good for the boys sake and not just for his own? I know he's purposely making it hard on me in spite of our divorce. How does anyone deal?
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*sigh* i totally hear u and can totally relate....adam's dad and i have been divorced for 10 plus years now and there are still times i'm like...."are u flippin' kidding me??? when are u gonna act your age and know that i'm soooooooooo not spending child support on a new set of boobs and actually spending it on your kid???" lord.... i totally get u my dearest... totally get u.... hope it gets better for u... {{{hugs}}} :):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):)
Just love your photo - it made me laugh - but I know what you are going through. My ex was also a major jerk but I never said anything negative about him to our son, who lived with me and my D2H. As my son grew older, he realized a lot of things about his father (his dad never grew up) but they made their own peace, and I stayed out of it - BUT there were times......... My ex died several years ago and my son totally sees my DH as his dad - they are very close and I could not have asked for a better father and teacher for our son. Hope things get better and just count to 10!
bummer dude! sorry for all the drama, I've never been through anything like this so I don't have some mega "words of wisdom"... just be patient with him and show that he doesn't get to you, then maybe he'll stop!
Hope it gets better sweets!
I personally think that some people are always gonna be selfish no matter what you do. The secret is to NOT let him see you sweat-don't give him your SUPERPOWERS and steal your WonderWoman bracelets. Smile and do the Miss America wave and just flip him the bird (or 2) when you get inside. Your kids will thank you for it and will see him for the narcissitic (sp?) fool that he is later in life when they grow up. I'm so glad my ex and I never had kids cause I probably wouda had to kill him.
ps-thank the lord that God gives us do-overs with second husbands huh???
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